what part are you?

i was watching the holiday with my fam, and there was this line:

'Iris, in the movies we have leading ladies and we have the best friend. You, I can tell, are a leading lady, but for some reason you are behaving like the best friend.'

and it got me to thinking- what part do i play? am is the main event or the sassy sidekick in my own life? i would like to think the former but i can't lie that there are days when i feel like the later. but since i usually like sidekicks better than drama filled leads, i think that's ok.

plus, isn't iris a great name?